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(This is a literal translation of an essay originally written in
Tamil under the title Mana Irukkam by Sri Swamigal. This appeared as three parts in the June, July and August
1999 issues of Madhura Murali Magazine.)
Part I
Part II
Part III
Part I
- Sri Swamigal
Mind is inert. As per the advaita philosophy there is in
fact no such thing as mind. I do accept this. However, in
day-to-day life one has to accept the existence of mind.
The mind is something wonderful and strange. One who is
able to control the mind gains mental strength and succeeds
in doing rare and great feats. One who is able to destroy
the mind becomes a Gnani (man of wisdom). And the one who
is unable to control the mind gets confused and becomes
sick both physically and mentally.
A man's face reflects his happiness and sorrow vividly.
In happiness his physical health improves and in sorrow
it is adversely affected. So there is a connection
between the mind and the body. A man with a disturbed
mind cannot sit quiet even for a while. And he is
always found to be fidgeting with something or moving
about restlessly. A man who has control over his mind
is able to sit quietly for a long period. Therefore,
those who are unable to control their minds directly,
practise aasanas (postures as shown in the Yoga) for
long hours and thus control their minds through body control.
Raja Yoga aasanas help in spiritual progress. Hatha
Yoga aasanas help strengthen both mind and body.
One-pointedness of the mind is totally different
from the state of mind gained (strengthened) through
Hatha Yoga. One who has strengthened his mind
carries out feats which create awe and wonder.
For example, he is found to possess the power
of an elephant in him. He will be able to break a
big rock with his bare hands. But his mind will be
bereft of feelings such as joy, sorrow, devotion and
knowledge.
Likewise, a tender heart (mind) is different from
a weak mind. Sattvic feelings like devotion, knowledge
are reflected only in the former while the latter (weak mind)
lacks steadfastness. If someone advises him that
'Ganesha pooja' is good then he would at once conduct
this pooja. If on the other hand he happens to read
that pranayama (control of breath) is the only way
he would at once start this practice. He would try
all ways and means that he sees, hears or reads but
would drop it all as soon as begun. It is not so in
spiritual matters alone. He behaves likewise in
worldly matters, too. Cinema, music or any other
subject for that matter attracts him very easily.
Such a person would take to self-pity quite suddenly.
His inability manifests itself as anger, hatred and tears.
His mind then is like a cauldron. He then uses abusive
and authoritative words in self-defence.
There is a connection between mind and food.
It is seen that some kind of food make the mind sattvic
(calm) some make it rajasic (active) and yet others make
it tamasic (dull). For example, food which are not fresh
when taken makes the mind dull. Liquor makes one loose
control of his senses and even makes him unconscious.
From this it is evident that there is connection between
food and mind.
In most cases of mental sickness there is no definitive
treatment in allopathy (English medicine). Our scriptures
categorises the diseases as those afflicting the body as
vyadhi and those afflicting the mind as aadhi. Ayurvedha
(ancient Indian medicine) prescribes medication even for
mental illnesses. The ayurvedic practitioners opine that
these illnesses are the outcome of heated up brain.
Whereas, the allopathic doctors hold the opinion that
they are due to nervous breakdown. So, they try to
calm down the mentally ill patients through sedatives,
electro-convulsive therapy (shock treatment). However,
even these doctors agree that their system of medicine
only pacifies the patient but does not cure them.
My opinion in this matter is totally different.
Epilepsy, nervous breakdown, mental disorder, mental
depression are the result of the trouble caused by spirits.
The chances of such mental afflictions are more in families
where there have been unnatural deaths (suicide,
murder, accident, etc.). Also, such afflictions prevail
in families where pithru karmas (religious rites to be
done for one's dead parents) have not been adhered to.
Also, one who accepts gifts offered during pithru karmas
becomes vulnerable to such mental diseases. Use of
black magic also affects mental stability. Such
diseases can be cured only by counter mantras,
the power of upasana (worship) doing angapradakshina
(circumambulation not by foot but by lying down and
rolling on the ground) to Tirupathi Srinivasa Perumal
and never by medicines.
Philosophers say that when one desires to achieve
something in life one should imagine/dream of having
achieved that status. Only those who have such dreams
succeed in life. I neither accept this view totally
nor reject it. One should have dreams but dream
itself should not become one's life. A man toils
in the scorching sun. Even as he works he imagines,
"I would be paid my wage on completion of this work.
I shall buy good food for my wife and children and
make them happy". This sweet imagination lessens the
burden of his work. Arduous labour without such sweet
imagination would have only weighed him down.
But only imagination without work would make him
lazy with no end purpose in life. That is why
I say that our dreams and imaginations should be
combined with effort (work) and be within reasonable limits.
Imagination and superstition take hold of some
to the extent that it chains them down with no way
of escape. Yet there are those who are bogged down
by other notions. For example, a man might have
received a good news on a Monday and a bad one on
the following day, i.e. Tuesday. At once his mind
imagines that a good and a bad news would alternate.
And if this man awaits some news on the following
Friday he would imagine that it would be a favourable
one and that which would be received on the next day,
Saturday, would be otherwise.
Likewise, a man might
have got into the routine of visiting the Ganesha temple
every day enroute to his office. If on any day he is
unable to make it and happens to face some problem on
that very day in his office he would blame it all up
on his missed visit to the temple. If by any chance
he happens to see a picture of Ganesha in any of his
office files or pads he would imagine that Ganesha is
reminding him of his missed visit. Likewise, when he
misses the visit yet on another day he would anticipate
some trouble in his office. The mind of such a man
gradually looses its strength. This becomes quite
obvious as he starts suspecting everything (PARANOID).
For example, when he finds two people conversing
he thinks that he is being talked about (IDEAS OF REFERENCE).
He becomes careless in his dress, wearing dirty and torn clothes.
He then imagines afflictions of various diseases (HYPOCHONDRIAC).
He starts speaking incessantly. All these are sure signs of self-pity.
There are always two sides to a coin. For a depressed
man everything will appear contradictory. He starts
feeling neglected - that none understands him, none
praises him, none respects him and none has any affection for him.
When he learns of the symptoms of various diseases
through books, radio, like if one
feels frequently thirsty it is a sure sign of diabetes,
he would feel that he has such symptoms and so is
afflicted with that particular disease. Similarly,
in devotional matters, if he happens to read the life
history of a saint he would imagine that he, too,
undergoes similar experiences.
Part II
A man is disease prone when he is immunodeficient.
Nobody's life is exempt from success, failure, joy,
sorrow, expectations and disappointments. Just as a
man with a weak immune system suffers frequently from
diseases, so, too, does a man with a weak mind suffer
from depression. The only medication for the weak
minded is proper spiritual practice.
Those who are weak of mind can easily be mesmerized
or hypnotized. But those who are strong minded cannot
be mesmerized or hypnotized as easily. A lot of people
are moved to tears while listening to the so-called
Nama Sankeerthanam, set to modern music. This is not
due to devotion. This is also a kind of hypnotism.
This is similar to people getting ecstatic while
listening to pop or rock music. There is absolutely
no semblance of devotion in these. Nama Sankeerthanam
should conform to the norms set by Saints. Just as a
physically powerful man enslavens the weak man so does
the strong minded enslaven the weak minded.
In the name of meditation if one just stares vacantly
into space, fixes the vision on a mirror or concentrates
on a black dot/electric lamp the mind gets self-hypnotised.
One should learn meditation directly from the Guru and
adhere to His instructions strictly without any compromise.
Until such time one finds a suitable Guru the safest way
is to chant Hari Naama ceaselessly.
Psychologically, women are more vulnerable to
mesmerism/hypnotism. This is the reason that it
was not in our tradition for the women to mix freely
in the society. The kumkum applied between the two
eyebrows and the 'kaajal' applied to the eyes protect
them from mesmerisers and hypnotisers.(provided the
kumkum and kaajal are prepared in the traditional way).
These days we hear of hundreds of young boys and
girls, leaving their homes and moving into various
ashramas, practising spiritual sadhanas. Lord
Dakshinamurthy himself had only four disciples.
Adi Shankara, too, had only four disciples and
Jesus Christ had only twelve principal disciples.
It is not a wonder if crores of people come to have
darshan of a Saint. It is also but only natural to be
devoted to him. To follow his commandments even while
living in a family is also quite natural. But how is
it that so many people give up their families and take
to ascetic life just on seeing some swamijis? This is
beyond any logic! It goes against nature and does not appear rational.
But you may question that such spiritual aspirants
never involve themselves in worldly affairs. How then
can one find fault with them? But they are like those
in semi-conscious state. They cannot involve themselves
deeply in their sadhanas, too. Though they may seem to
be meditating for long periods it is only a semi-conscious
state. Their mind is always in a trance. You may wonder
how then such people claim to have had divine visions, seen
divine light, while meditating? In fact even they doubt
their own experiences. Those with a family history of
mental illness, those with nervous weakness, those who
are constantly worrying over something, those who are
poor eaters and poor sleepers, those who are filled
with fear, such people suffer from insomnia. Their
body needs rest. But the mind refuses to slip into deep sleep.
This state mid-way between sleep and wakefulness is
mistaken to be dhyana (meditation)
A person can be in two different states at a time.
For eg. A man may appear to be asleep. But he may be
dreaming. Somnambulism (sleep walking) is a condition
wherein the person is simultaneously in a wakeful and
sleeping state. Similarly, those in depression are at
the same time in wakeful and dream state. Just as we
see totally see unconnected scenes in our dreams these
people see unconnected scenes in their meditative state.
Just as a few of our dreams turn out to be true, so too,
do some of their 'visions'. Hence, this leads to confusion.
The fine line of demarcation between reality and dream state
is lost and they are pushed into emotional imbalance.
Let's say we have had a divine vision. Standing in front of a picture of God we think that if a flower placed on the picture were to fall then it would confirm the authenticity of the vision seen. Now there is nothing surprising even if the flower were to fall down, for, it is but a natural occurrence for a thing to fall down. If the vision were authentic the flower should move up! This is not an exaggerated statement. When Sri Ramakrishna Paramahamsa had had his first darshan of Devi he prayed that if what he had seen were true the sword placed beside the deity should jump thrice. And it did! Our divine visions should be confirmed in this manner without place for any doubt.
There is a general opinion that those involved in
spiritual practice are prone to mental illnesses.
This is not true. On the contrary when those already
suffering from depression take to spiritual practice
the chances of the depression flaring up is more. The
life histories of 'divine' sadhaks (those who pursue
spiritual practices) talk of extraordinary experiences.
When weak minded people read these books they get confused
and tend to believe that they, too, have had such divine
experiences.
In the initial stage it is difficult for a person to
sit for dhyana for more than, say, twenty minutes.
However, lust, anger, etc. can be conquered only
through prolonged practice. This is only but natural.
If even in the initial stage a person is able to sit for
dhyana for a long period he must either be a yoga
prashtha (one who had practised spiritual disciplines
in his previous birth) or someone who has taken to a
wrong path in the name of dhyana. It is only with the
help of a genuine Master can one know if the dhyana is
being done in the right way.
Part III
The first two sections of the article titled 'DEPRESSION' has had
tremendous reception. In this connection, many have raised a lot
of queries and sought suggestions/guidance to come out of depression.
To feel low in spirit quite often or to get highly excited is a
sign of depression. (Psychiatrists term it as 'manic depressive
psychosis') Such people cannot tolerate others being happy when
they are in low spirit and others feeling low when they are happy.
At such times they become a real nuisance to those around. They
expect others to dance to their tune. It is quite common amongst
these people to resolve to observe a fast, a vow of silence, to
avoid television, etc. only to break them as soon as resolved.
Yet they make such resolutions quite frequently. At times they
believe that they are capable of performing even impossible tasks
(psychiatrically known as 'Mood congruent delusion of physical strength')
while at other times they slump into deep inferiority complex. Their
moods alternate between such extremes. Such people are loquacious.
People in depression tend to draw illogical, foolish conclusions
from day-to-day happenings. For example, they would relate a bad
day to seeing a particular person on waking up or a good day to
wearing a particular person's shirt. Thus, they get caught in a
whirlpool of imagination and are unable to get out of it. When
such people enter spiritual life one can well imagine their situation.
Life histories of great saints and incarnations speak of their
extraordinary nature. When depressed people read such life
histories they tend to believe that they, too, have a lot in
common with such incarnations.
They tend to think that they know what is happening and what
would happen to them. They interpret natural events to suit
their mental make-up. For instance, if they miss a bus while
going to an interview they immediately conclude that they would
not get the job. Herein, it is but natural, that a doubt arises
regarding the rationale behind our belief in Jyothisham (astrology),
Nimitham and Saguna shasthra (omen) as described by our Shasthras
(scriptures). Jyothisha shasthra, Saguna shasthra and Nimitha are
paths shown by great saints. It is true that these shasthras are
pointers towards future events. There is a great deal of difference
between our drawing conclusions from daily events and our interpreting
events based on shasthras. Moreover, for the right understanding of the
predictions through Jyothisham, etc. one needs deep tapas/upaasana balam
(spiritual strength).
Generally, depressed people hold on to one particular subject. For
instance, if in their office their boss likes another person, they get
obsessed with it. Their inability to do certain things due to fear or
doubt may depress them. The list of things that would precipitate
depression in a person is endless. So, ways and means of overcoming
this state of mind may now be discussed.
Those in the early stages of depression can easily come out of it on
their own. However, those in the advanced stage cannot be brought out
even through counselling. Even if told they will only question why
they were not advised earlier. Moreover, they do not possess enough
strength to follow the counselling given. It needs a lot of patience
on the part of those around to bring them out of depression.
Our shasthras discipline our daily routine. For example, though bathing
is only to cleanse the body, our shasthras tell us when to and when not
to bathe. And also bathing is described as a virtuous act. Similarly,
though food is taken to appease hunger, our shasthras tell us when and
what type of food to be had. Having food and offering food to others
(anna dhana) are considered as worship. As never seen anywhere else
it is only here in our land that shasthras have been made even for
kaama. All these only go to show that our feelings/emotions need to
be properly channelised.
Depressed people yearn to be like the experts in various fields -
to be like the good musician when they listen to a good music
performance, to be like the cricketer when they watch a cricket
match and so on. This trait is also a mental weakness and is
sheer foolishness. In each there is a latent talent. There
is none in this world who is 'UTTERLY USELESS'. One should
recognize one's own latent talent and nurture it. A bird in
hand is worth two in the bush. Each one should find satisfaction,
joy and have interest in his/her own life. Idleness and
garrulousness are dangerous. Big talkers are small doers.
Mental strength and thinking capacity increases when one
reduces talking.
An idle mind is devil's workshop. Swami Vivekananda said
to an idler, "I shall give you a knife. Go, kill someone.
It is better than remaining idle!"
One should always be cheerful and pleasant. One should
be in the company of good friends and sadhus. Good books
also make good company. One should always be positive in
thought, word and deed, as these have power. For instance,
when someone enquires after your well being one should respond
cheerfully/positively. One should not dwell on negative things
and keep cribbing about them. To feel things turn negative even
though one thinks positively does not constitute "positive thinking".
One should have a concrete goal in life. Adoption of a child
by childless couples is only to bring meaning into their lives.
In spiritual life realization is the goal. At the same time one
should put in constant effort.
Though festivals like Sri Ramanavami, Vinayaka Chathurthi,
Gokulashtami, Navarathri, etc. are basically religious in nature,
they are also meant to overcome idleness, bring in cheerfulness and
promote social interaction. Our religious concepts have sound logic as
basis.
We should avoid the company of people who have negative attitude,
who always find fault with others and who are idle because negative
qualities are very contagious.
Equality is to respect another's right without compromising on our own.
For example, if a person who observes a fast on Ekadasi visits a friend
who does not, he should neither compromise on his fasting nor stop his
friend from having food. If we follow the mantra 'ADJUST, ADAPT AND
ACCOMMODATE' the world would be a better place to live in. Rather
than pray for things that we like, we should pray for maturity of
mind to like what has been given.
Mind is both wonderful and dangerous. Reading the essay on
'DEPRESSION' would probably have made many people believe they,
too, fit into the description of many symptoms of depression.
It is not so. As long as the mind exists, such imaginations and
thoughts are unavoidable. Only when such imaginations cross the
threshold can we term it, 'DEPRESSION'.
To put it in a nutshell,
- one should have a definite purpose in life
- one should not waste a single moment
- one should talk less
- one should cultivate good thoughts and be in good company
- one should have a practical approach towards life, and
- one should believe in God
Observing these simple guidelines will enable us to lead a healthy life
interpreting events based on shasthras.
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